Hi,

Wow! sounds like this person definitely has some problems with honesty and general acceptable social behavior, but I do agree with krminnj that I do not see any signs of bipolar in your description.

Bipolar is characterized by marked periods of Mania and Depression. Here are the signs of each:

Mania
The DSM defines mania as a “distinct period during which there is an abnormally and persistently elevated, expansive, or irritable mood.” The episode must last at least a week. The mood must have at least three of the following symptoms:

inflated self-esteem
little need for sleep
pressure of speech (talking constantly)
flight of ideas
easily distracted
excess pursuit of goal-directed activities or psychomotor agitation (pacing, hand wringing, etc.)
excess pursuit of pleasure with a high risk of danger

Depression
The DSM states that a major depressive episode must have at least four of the following symptoms. They should be new or suddenly worse. They must last for at least two weeks.

changes in appetite or weight, sleep, or psychomotor activity
decreased energy
feelings of worthlessness or guilt
trouble thinking, concentrating, or making decisions
thoughts of death or suicidal plans or attempts

While his behavior was and is unacceptable from a mature relationship standpoint, I did not see anything in the description given that appears to match the criteria that medical doctors use to diagnose bipolar disorder.

I am curious about how ideas that bipolar might be in play came to mind. To me, he just sounds like a jerk. Thanks and good luck,

moogs