My brother is also an aspie with a strong OCD side. I am a bit organizational and have strong preferences where I keep things. He is really bad though. If you put the dishes away, and they are not *exactly* organized his way, he flips out. Not just mugs on this side, glasses over here. The mug from vacation 20 years ago has to be on top of the Christmas mug from Uncle Don, etc. I am more flexible. He drives me insane though. Well, I don't think multiple OCD people can actually live together without struggle? I mean, if everyone wants things a certain way, it will be tough.