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Aug 22, 2015, 09:49 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2004
Location: transitioning to pluto
Posts: 3,461
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
I bought two pairs of trousers when I was 18, in London.
My father, who no longer lived with my mother (since they were divorced) told me that I was a terrible, selfish person.
A couple of years later, I bought a skirt. the stepmother told me I should be punished all my life 
The stepmother, I found out later, squandered thousands of pounds earnt by Him Who Shall Not Be Named.
and yet, I'm the Villain in this Story, right?!
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Listen to ME! I am EM! haha
There is something wrong with your Father and stepmom. Has anyone ever said that to you? If not I will say it again. There is something wrong with your father and stepmom.
Now if you bought a new Mercedes while your kids starve, Yes you could be the villain.
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OliverRaw
Try to get over it.
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Are you serious? In my opinion that is one of the least helpful things I need to hear. Why don't you add "others have it worse than you" or "if you just try to be happy?" Please do not take this as a personal attack. It was not meant that way.
I once read in a book titled I want to Change but I Don't know how something about 'the body remembers what the mind forgets'. It is the only sentence I remember from reading this book 30 years ago.
Get out of your mind!!!!
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Fuzzybear
This is the thing, sometimes speaking just a few words about the years of abuse can set someone free to "move on".
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I love this. You have said it perfectly. A villain would not have been able to.
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