Hi DIMF, I've also wondered excessively about my future children, where they will go to school one day.

School broke me. It ruined me, no other way of describing it. I was odd but perfectly OK before school.

I don't want to deny them any proper social development either though. I don't want them to be unprepared either, because those kids in the public school, even the bullies, will be growing up the same rate as my kids, so one day they might meet as adults. My parents sheltered me when I was a kid and it didn't quite do me good, it left me unprepared.

This is so hard.