What exactly bothers you personally? What do you need to get over? Why does it bring you down?
It's her past. She is a survivor of abuse.
The best you can do for her? Don't judge her. Listen to her. Respect her boundaries. Be there for her. Don't be self-centered - her past is not a reflection of how she will be with you.
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"The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..."
"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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