<font color="#000088">A lot of people with low self esteem issues might blame themselves,or feel guilt type feelings for such events like you described.Just because they happened to be in the area, they feel they may have somehow jinxed the situation or event into happening,because of how bad they feel about themselves. Usually it's due to having a pattern of long term emotional abuse as a child growing up, and being told that you are bad,and that ruin everything. Repeated abuse like this can cause a person to have these feelings when they get older, especially if they haven't been able to process the abuse they went through properly with a Therapist for a good period of time to bring up their self-esteem to where they don't continue to feel that they are just a bad person in general that carries bad vibes with them wherever they go. I hope that makes sense to you,or helps in any way. </font>