((((Fuzzy))))
you just never know when something from the past (abuse or otherwise) is going to come up. When it does, you need to process it.
For me, I can go stretches of time where I hardly think about it and then something, even a little thing can set it off. It's like a silent Jack-in-the-Box. It just pops up out of nowhere, and BAM!! There it is. Then you need to deal with it. One of the best things I've found is being able to share it here.

you were the victim, Fuzzy, in no way were you the bad one!