Fiance just called me as he was leaving work saying he was going to go over to a coworker's house, who he's never hung out with before and who I haven't met, and would be home in an hour. I told him that it wasn't ok, and he later said he "was trying to find more stuff for us to do" because he knows I'm bored... If you were trying to find things for US to do, maybe you should have invited me to begin with... I feel all wrong, I haven't been upset with him over anything in a very long time, and it makes me more sad than anything else...