aw inky... NO NO NO! Okay, just my opinion MHO...
you are not ready for a relationship... the fact that the type of men you are drawing towards you fit into the same category tells me this. It isn't your "fault" there's no blame involved.

But IMHO, again, you need more time to find yourself. From your posts I think you are still quite vulnerable and seeking relationships from a sub conscious level... and not really in your best interest. It makes it more difficult for you to keep yourself safe if you continue to follow this... please be safe.