They can do whatever they need to but I'm canceling any further appointments. My husband can leave me if he must. If in the future I am involuntary committed I'll take it until I get out and that's it. I'm done. I'll take my son to his appointments but that's it. I dealt before and I will again. If my son hates me for it that's his choice. I wasn't and never will be abusive or neglectful. This is my choice. Now to tell my husband.