as a girl i can say that there is a sort of automatic creep factor when anyone talks to me in a bar. and i tend to attract people with all sorts of disorders... aspergers can definitely heighten the creep factor, not because those with aspergers are creepier, they just are awkward. i used to hang out with whomever and not worry about how creepy they seemed... but i got myself into enough trouble that way. also, desperation is not attractive. i dont mean that as an insult, i am just trying to shed light on why it happens that way in bars.