There's no shame in crying for the reasons you do. I get the same way. Friends and family wouldn't make fun of you. Your enemies do it because, well, they're your enemies. It's kind of in the job description. Who cares what they think?

I can relate somewhat, though. I don't always like to let people see me cry, either. One part is the stupid double standard that as men we're not supposed to cry, the rest has more to do with the reason I'm crying and not wanting to express that reason.