Oh, I know Jerry doesn't realize what he's doing most of the time. When we were going to therapy, the T told him about his passive/agressive, covert behavior. I don't know how he processed that in his mind, but he sure didn't try to do anything about it. In so many ways, he's still 13 emotionally. Because he won't face it, he stays stuck in his ways.

This week has been hell because he stopped taking his Celexa when he left for Canada. He claims he can't tell the difference between being on it or not. BULL!! He's angry all the time and seems to be avoiding me most of the time. Allienating? Who knows... We had a disagreement with our youngest son yesterday and he actually broke down and cried. I was just as angry and disappointed but I got over it. Not him! He's sent him a couple of emails that he has "unsent" and revised then sent again. He keeps obsessing about it. He threatens to not ever speak to our son again but doesn't understand that it's over the top.

He goes back to Canada on Monday. One way or the other, I'm going to have a talk with him and if he wants to come back "home" after his trip, he'll have to get back on his Celexa BEFORE he gets here! I won't live with him like this! I made it just fine for seven years while we were separated. I can sure do it again!