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Old Aug 24, 2015, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted by krisakira View Post
"I even like pain in the bedroom"

Me too. I used to be a cutter for about 12 years, since the age of 14. I like the feeling of pain, when it's intentional. Since getting lupus, and being in pain 24/7 with little break in between, I have cut back on the cutting (no pun intended) because I am kinda tired of being in pain now. But I still will ask my husband to go rough enough for it to hurt and it helps me get there. I don't think it's such a bad thing about the bedroom thing, it's just natural in some ways. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know you're not a freak for liking the intentional pain. There are others out there like us.
I have chronic pain, as well as some newer hip pain and basically just a lot of pain. I sometimes cut because I feel like it is pain I have control over.

And yeah, I'm with you guys on the pain in the bedroom too.
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Thanks for this!
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