Thank you both. I guess I'm looking at this from the wrong angle. And, her ability to be able to put her scars aside to try and build a relationship with me is the most important thing. We have spoken about therapy and she is open to the idea. Unfortunately, she's dealt with other situations throughout her life that make it difficult for her to be intimate. But, it's something we've been working through. Sometimes she's baffled as to why I'm even with her after finding out everything she has gone through. This causes her to have a low self-esteem, insecurities about her and our relationship, and trust issues. What are some ways that I can help her build this up? Sometimes she tells me that she feels worthless and I try to give her reassurance of her value to me and to everyone else who loves her dearly. Are, there any methods I can implement day to day to help her build up her sel-esteem and self-worth again?