most ppl i know felt that way in the first year. I remember almost everyone went home for every break/holiday their first year. we were all kind of home sick and wanted to catch up with high school friends. then by the second year we were closer with friends at school and most ppl were staying at college for every break except the ones they were forced to go home for. Because it takes a while to adjust to living at school. but you will stormie. Don't worry if youre feeling home sick or something in the beginning. that'll change over time.

It sucks if you have social anxiety but I think the more clubs you join and ppl you meet the more quickly you'll find you're new home. I'd say try to force yourself out if you can but also don't force it too much if you're really not comfortable.