Can a man be feminine and still be a man? Yeah. Can a woman be masculine and still be a woman? Yes. Is a man wearing a dress still a man? Yup. Is a man who wears pink, loves ballet and hates nascar still a man? Of course. What makes a man has nothing to do with his interests or how he presents. It's an intrinsic thing to him. You know who you are better than anyone. You know what would feel best to you. If your doctor or whoever is trying to tell you who you are, well, maybe it's time to see someone else. If you can, call your nearest LGBT or PFLAG group and see if they can help you get started on things.