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Originally Posted by divine1966
They are married so cutting the ties isn't as easy.
I agree though with you about people's reaction. But I don't think it is different for gender.
While back female
Was posting about wanting this or that ( she wanted s&m and he didn't). and people were saying her husband stuck in a mud and has to meet her needs. Yeah. Really
honestly I wonder if cheaters just like to use sex addiction as excuse for cheating.
I also don't understand how people marry not knowing each other. Things like this don't just come up from
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Exactly. I don't get it either.
People exasperate me. I remember I mentioned that I am into plushophilia on the sex forum, and my girlfriend couldn-t accept it. Everyone was telling me that I should try to control it. I bet that if it was a girl saying she was into plushophilia and her boyfriend or husband isn't into it, they would tell her her husband or bf is closed-minded, stuck in the mud and mean.
Nobody should be changing their desires or sexual preferences (as long as these aren't illegal or nonconsensual). But people shouldn't put up with it if they don't feel comfortable with it either.
If I had a girlfriend who was into enemas, I would say "no" to her, and "**** you" to those who call me closed-minded. The same goes for those who tell me to change my sexuality to meet someone else's needs. "No", and "**** you".