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Originally Posted by sukothefox
Are you guys serious? He is saying that he feels torn. He doesn't feel happy about what his girlfriend does, yet you guys tell him to get out of his comfort zone.
Buddy, my advice is this: I know it's been a while since you began a relationship with her, but are you sure you want this? Do you see yourself as being happy later on? If your answers are negative, then consider breaking this tie. If your sexuality and hers aren't compatible, and the compromise is too much for you, don't force yourself to stay in that relationship. It'll cause more stress and frustration.
I find it endearing how everyone tells guys to accept their girlfriends' sexual desires and get out of the comfort zone. But if the OP was a female, I bet everyone would be advising her what I am advising this good sir right now.
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If you love someone, this is the last resort to consider. If you read his thread, he says he want to stay with here and all we are doing is giving pointers to keep her.
she has hypersexuality. I do in a manic episode of bipolar and it really sucks. She can also try meds...I say she should buy toys if she really cares about him and wants to stay. Plus counseling.
In the end if it doesn't work and she cheats bc of it...cut the tie
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Originally Posted by divine1966
They are married so cutting the ties isn't as easy.
I agree though with you about people's reaction. But I don't think it is different for gender.
While back female
Was posting about wanting this or that ( she wanted s&m and he didn't). and people were saying her husband stuck in a mud and has to meet her needs. Yeah. Really
honestly I wonder if cheaters just like to use sex addiction as excuse for cheating.
I also don't understand how people marry not knowing each other. Things like this don't just come up from
Nowhere
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