I agree it is never to late! I am single and old ha! and it has been a learning lesson for me, but I think every thing happens for a reason and maybe right now it is just time for you to focus on you a bit. And don't let what your ex told you stick in your head, they just say things like that to keep you down and under their control. I know, been there done that! Some days it is hard being alone but other days it is wonderful!