Thank you all. My husband and I actually just had another 3 hour fight about how my mother and her issues are ruining our marriage and he can't take it anymore and feels like we won't make it. We've been married for a year.

I don't want to lose him, I just seem incapable of taking a stand for myself against my mother and father. I feel like I can't do anything right- not a good mother, wife or daughter. It sucks.