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Old Aug 26, 2015, 10:46 AM
Anonymous59898
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
I understand your frustration but I have my status turned off by turning off the entire chat functionality. I dunno how it's snitching on anyone really except that if you have opted in for it to show that you're online it will, which is pretty common practice of any social networking software, chat software and such, like Skype etc.

Dont' get me wrong, I'm no big fan of fb but I have to say if you think that you're missing out on something if you're not on fb you are very wrong. The only thing fb does for me is let me see artists that I like and game posts and such because that is all I use it for. I don't use it to keep in touch with friends, I don't want to see people's lives and play by play of their days. I just don't follow them so I don't se it and only friends that I allow see my status updates because I never post to public either. It's still pretty non-private so I don't expect that but you have some control over it.

The problem here with your "stalker" friends is that they are, as you imply, annoying and stalkerish. It's not really the site's fault but how people do that to you that is. Simple thing. block the people you don't want to see when you're online, opt out of having your status show by turning off the chat messaging software or filtering it so only the people you want to know can see it.
Good advice, chat can be turned off quite easily, the default setting is 'on' so maybe people don't know they can turn off.

The thing with facebook is it has a myriad of settings and you can pretty strictly control who does and does not see what you post, but that's time consuming and involving to do so lots of people don't realise they can. Worth setting aside some time to figure it out if you're going to continue using it.

I think it's a useful tool, I use it for 'groups' and organise social/sports arrangements, so much easier than emailing or phoning large numbers of people.

However the OP is very right - nothing posted there should ever be regarded as 'private' as there is too much chance it will become public.