Can anybody tell me why my alters would disappear when my t goes away on a long vacation? In the past, it used to be that the alters would fuss and cry because of anxiety over being separated from her. Eventually, I would have to force a disconnect in awareness because it was too painful for me to deal with. This time, the alters just seem to be gone all on their own. I mean, nothing is happening inside. Absolutely nothing. And that's quite different from when my t is here and we actively work on stuff.

What could be going on?

I should state that my alters do not trust me to take care of them. They know I can't easily deal with their emotions and traumas. However, there is a better relationship between us than in the past. But it's sort of like they view me as a babysitter for them, who they really don't trust or want but will accept, but they really want my t's help instead. My t is trying to work with me on better internal communication, etc. It was staring to happen more before we went out of town. But now, nothing.