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Originally Posted by vjdragonfly
My husband is losing grasps on reality. He is always angry in his heart. He blames his actions on how his Dad treated him. He refuses to get help. He has started destroying things and now I don't feel so safe. We have been together 20 years and this is the first time I have felt this way. His mind has turned soooo dark. I want to leave , but I have no money, no job, and animals I don't want to give up so that knocks out a shelter. I just feel paralyzed and wanting this emotional torment to end.
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Go out and get a job and start making yourself more independent. If nothing else it will be respite from the situation untll you can clear your head and get focused on your needs. Put awAy your money and create the environment for yourself to leave if necessary. You saying you are paralyzed is the same as your husband refusing to get help.