Hi ga_dad, welcome to Psych Central, but oh how painful the situation sounds you are in with the divorce, and aftermath of daughter's in patient, your world must be in turmoil.

Kaliope has given you excellent guidance in my opinion. I feel your daughter's cry for help. It sounds like she does not know where to turn. Her identity and world are shattered so she cannot even tell anyone what is bothering her.

Sounds like the need for support for your daughter is very great right now. And self care for you is so important. You really have a lot on your shoulders.

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