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Old Aug 26, 2015, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Komfortable View Post
Pfft, done. I've always been an open book (haven't exactly been holding back here, either) so opening up to her isn't an issue. We have (occasionally) long conversations about who we are and what has shaped our lives. She opens up to me...SOMETIMES...but it's for a few minutes once every couple weeks or so, and I can feel her pull back hard the next day.
You've put yourself out there, that's all that matters. Seems she's emotionally unavailable. None of us posters can tell you what you already don't know yourself. Now ask yourself if you can deal with this emotional unavailability on her part. Then make your decision. I can only say that if I were in your shoes, one I wouldn't emotionally give without some sort of reciprocity. If I sensed that someone isn't willing to be emotionally open with me, I move on. I can only surmise that it likely won't change much in the future, especially if I have put myself out there and got nothing back. Communication is my big thing, and it's gotta be 50/50. So if I were in your shoes I'd have moved on. But again, there's so little info here and we don't know the full story.
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