Just accept yourself the way you are & stop trying to put the sexual labels that this current society wants to place on everyone....you will be a LOT HAPPIER.

When I grew up everyone was what they were. I was a only child female who grew up in a neighborhood of all guys.....my interests growing up were all guy stuff & I had no interest in the girl dolls or dressing up or even make-up.....it didn't make me any less of a female. I even ended up in what was mostly a male career of computer engineering. When I first started working there I was the only female in the group. I played racquetball with the guys & gave them a good game if I didn't beat them on the court. Always loved being competitive with guys because they were more of a challenge to compete with than females who always seemed to wimp out quickly.

I am who I am with the interests I have. I now have women friends who are very active in the horse community that I'm now involved in & am finding that in the areas I'm in now that there are more women even my age that are also involved though I also repair my own truck when I can & take care of my farm as much as possible by myself. I was married for 33 years but H was totally dysfunctional & I finally left when I could finally get out.....not sure I really ever want to get married again after that.......satisfied being alone for the time being.....It would have driven me crazy to have to put a label on who & what I have been through my life.......instead of just accepting me as I am.....too much pressure is being put on people now to label every little detail of their sexual selves & I personally think it's sad.