I had a counselor some years ago that described her mother as JPN in other words just plain nuts! She was able to say that and dismisss some of the effect on her with the understanding that it was JPN. That it wasn't her it wasn't anything she did it was JPN. I think it would be reasonable to say that these statements that were made were just JPN. No one is to be condemned for just meeting a need with a purchase. Fuzzy take heart it is not you!