I'd like to dedicate a thread to helping out our friend HD7970GHZ, who has been going through hell with the healthcare system. I have my own ideas and suggestions, and would like to encourage anyone and everyone out there to chime in and offer their own ideas. Let's lend a helping hand if we can.

HD, having read some recent posts, first, I'd like to state my understanding of your situation - You were greatly wronged by the healthcare system ... your records were falsified, your reputation was tarnished, you were abused and otherwise traumatized. You are/were considering legal action against them. During this process, and generally, you tend to express your anger in emotionally charged outbursts when you're in "emotion mind" ... you tend to say things that worsen your situation. Also, you are easily attached to people in your life (e.g. therapists and people in DBT group), and are devastated when they abandon you. Your mind keeps replaying this trauma, and you are held hostage by the resulting anxiety. Right ?