I don't know what the struggle is with your diagnoses but I have my own diagnoses and the way I force into intensive treatment beyond the therapy walls gave me reason to experience and know how intrusive and cruel people can be. No choice but to have sabotaged relationships on the backs of them the T because all they had to do was to tell what the deal was if I had no choice. That being said, it is totally up to you how you handle this. I'm like you can meet someone with undiagnosed mental issues and still be in the same boat. If you had a lot of experiences with relationships going sour and so now your experiences has shaped your fears on the subject then find individuals with the same diagnoses if you can. I mean I'm sorry this is totally a problem for people like us. It is pretty much nothing you can do about it. Good Luck