correct emotional response I'm going use that phrase. Is that okay to say.....Sorry this is extremely triggering for me! Who is the to say what is correct emotional response for a situation...Maybe you need that time to let it be held back there because having an correct emotional response in the moment is not always safe! This is extremely triggering! If I was you and I get it you have your standards for your selves I wouldn't be worried about a correct emotional response! When I/we feel the need to have one and it is safe then I try to make sure it happens and it is not always a conscious process!!! YOu would have to have background to know why this is extremely triggering something I went through