Fuzzybear,

It sounds like you and your t did have a good working relationship together. So it sounds like what caused it to deteriorate over time was issues of transference and countertransference? That saddens me because t's are supposed to be informed about transference and countertransference and how to deal with it. Do you think your t was not adequately trained in that area? Was she a new t? I think sometimes what happens too is that the t starts feeling closer to the client than they think is best, and then they pull back when they realize it. But by then, it hurts the client.