Lemon, I've been to a few divorce sites that had message boards, but none were that heavily used. Posts were few and far between. And none of them were women only. I would love to find a supportive, positive place for those going through divorce. I have found with my friends that it is almost better not to talk to them about divorce because especially the divorced ones (that I know) tend to be extremely negative and bitter and just want to rag on their ex-spouse and they are putting their children in between, continuing to battle after the divorce is final, etc. I am not doing my divorce that way (fingers crossed) and so find that I can be dragged down by the negative people. So if you find anything good, please let me know. I'll look through my bookmarks and see if I can find the divorce message boards I've been to, although as I mentioned, they were not that great.