We are doing good job communicating and contacting each other through the day when we don't see each other. I like that and it's important to both of us

But my BF got into a habit of calling me twice a day lately besides texting etc

I don't mind texting but I hate talking on the phone. I almost never do with no one. I Skype with my daughter but other than that I only text briefly.

He calls me before work and at lunch or break. I don't want to be rude or pushing him away by giving him hints that it's excessive! If I don't answer the phone he leaves the message, undemanding, and that's the end of end of it but I feel guilty not calling back.

Now I love the guy and he is awesome and things are going really well. This isn't any kind of deal breaker. And He just pretty much calls to hear my voice, it's not lengthy but I overall just dislike phone conversations! I don't hear well on the phone and I get distracted. And ok once a day but twice?

He overall is insecure person ( he still at times worries I'll dump him) he is also shy and slightly awkward so I don't want to hint that his phone calls are excessive because that would make him feel insecure. I don't want to hurt him

So pretty much I guess I am just venting. My schedule is going to get even more complicated soon so I won't be as available so hopefully excessive calls will have to stop naturally

Now we don't see each other that often due to complicated work schedules and a bit of driving distance.



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