I hate the concept of alpha male in humans. We as homo sapiens abandoned the hierarchical structure as it is seen in other apes long time ago. We are more a cooperative species. That is why we hate to be ordered to do things

I am not sure if those shy guys made the first move or you did. For me, I would never make the first move. I tried, but I couldn't. I think even if shy guys are more educated, healthier, have better jobs than outgoing guys, still the latter are the ones who have dates and girlfriends and enjoy their lives. That is why I think shy girls have a better chance meeting someone because guys are often the ones who make the first move.