I am so sorry you feel anxious. I so understand what you feel. I wonder if you rushed into marriage as these issues didn't just appear today.

. I am not sure what to advice. I am more mortified that you take care of her unruly children than her potential cheating. That fear is irrational but poorly behaved kids is a real deal. What does she do to help the situation

My ex's adult daughter lived with us and it contributed to my leaving him. He refused to tell her anything and insisted on having to help her. She trashed up the house every day, kept me up all night watching TV, had horrible hygiene, didn't give us any space etc my ex was stressed about it but stopped addressing it because every time he did she started screaming and slamming doors. It was awful. Of course your situation is different as they are minors but still she needs to have some rules for them!

Are you in therapy? You might benefit from it

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