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Originally Posted by Rose76
Sounds like this guy is more into you than you are into him. You say you're in love, but maybe you're feelings for him don't quite rise to that level. It just seems to me that, when two people are in love, talking twice a day is pretty standard.
Rather than tell him to call less often, maybe you could just find a way to make the phone chats real short and sweet. Like, act glad that he's checking in, but have something you've got to get back to.
You say he's insecure. Maybe you are overly secure and don't find any challenge in holding his attention. You might be taking this guy for granted because you are so sure he is very emotionally needy of you.
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Oh I am very into him. Trust me. I do not take him for granted at all. That's not my concern.
I am very secure in my life but not in relationship whatsoever. That's why I am careful not to make him feel insecure. Because I know how that feels
I am not concerned with contacts as I myself text him all the time. We both laugh at our amount of texts. It's all day long pretty much. It's way more than twice a day!
Maybe I wasn't clear enough. I don't want to minimize contact at all. I just hate talking on the phone! I've been like this my whole life! I just don't know how to bring it up without hurting him
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