There's something to be said for the expression, 'don't put all your eggs in one basket.'

I don't find myself giving a play by play of my day to any one person in particular. My first serious relationship, one of the key points of it not working, was the over analysis of 'the relationship.' Haven't encountered that again, in my life. My relationship with my exhusband was a roller coaster because of a combination of factors contributing to unforeseeable outbursts on his part among other aspects. But those are the only real roller coasters that I've experienced. Not to say that on larger timelines other relationships haven't had tense moments, but overall not the constant ups and downs.

Yes, it's good to not need to emmesh oneself. Not analyzing'the relationship' is a breath of fresh air, as I've discovered since that first one.

But my foul flag went up on your bf turning to a female coworker after an argument. He must have factors of his own to work on?