a lot of these posts seem to be more about internal stigma than external stigma. we keep talking about how other people cant accept us... we never know why someone really wants or doesnt want to date us... and we will never know if they want to if we dont try...

but we shoot ourselves in the foot if we assume before we start that they cannot accept us, and we send the world the message that we are not worth acceptance.

when i am confident in myself, most people dont care if i am on disability or not. if they do care, they arent worth it.