Don't do the verbal vomit. Actually, if you still do a bit of a work, just say that's your job. Get into detail more after you've established trust. There's no need to be so upfront. I do a lot of online dating and let me tell you... it's like shopping online for an S/O. That's what it's come to. Keep that in mind. It makes options so available that people would rather write someone off for having one or two things they can't jive with without trying to get to know the person. Dating has changed. Establish trust. And when it comes time to disclosure, make sure there's enough for the other person to not run away. This is why timing is key. I'm a firm believer that each human being is a universe of his or her own and that they are worth getting to know, but we live in a capitalistic, consumerist society where people are interchangeable, more or less.