I always enjoyed going to my T because she made me feel "hopeful" and that was a good boost to have day-to-day throughout the rest of the week. I know the transference thing you're talking about Lostisland, I felt some of that too and was glad of it since it was so "young" and thus before my stepmother and her and my problems together. To me it meant there was something good "underneath" that just needed uncovering and cleaning off and there "I" would be again/still :-)