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Originally Posted by Peter A
You've always been cool with me. If you're as great in real-life as you are on these forums, then I see no reason why people reject you. It's them that have the flaws, not you.
Remember that!  |
this is part of the reason why i struggle with some individuals with aspd... just because i am not interested in dating someone, that does not mean i am rejecting them, and it does not mean that either of us are flawed... it gets to be very narcissistic when anytime a girl is not interested in a guy, suddenly she is an enemy.
the only advice i really have is to get outside of yourself! if someone is more interested in whether or not i am rejecting them, what is wrong with them, what they should do differently.... i feel invisible. someone who talks to me because they are genuinely interested in me (and not that i am the last person to cross off on a list), well, then i dont care what issues they have. the only remaining question is if i am equally interested in them...
but the process of who is wrong, who is being rejected, is just adolescent.