Thanks Direction. We have had that kind of talk but it just doesn't sink in.

Life is just not going to change so I have to accept it.

We have been together 20+ years. Hubby has always been this way. My brother-in-law confirmed as much when I saw him in June. Guess when you're young and in love you are also blind as a bat.

He won't accept that I'm disabled. I can barely make it through the day but since I'm not running a fever there must be nothing wrong. T and pdoc have both talked with him. He shakes is head yes but we come home and nothing changes.

Direction, I sure hope things are coming together for you.