Anyone who would accuse you of that doesn't seem to much care if they hurt you or not and if they said that of me they would land right on my list of "not to be trusted".
Just to accuse someone of that shows that they weren't trustworthy to start with.
I think that we should all be wary and discerning.
So... my answer to your question, Fuzzybear, is ...yea, I make people "jump through hoops".
Depending on the amount of triggering I go through in a given situation, I even sometimes make tests.
( I feel fine about this here post I wrote at the moment, but I can already feel the anxiety surging for having written it... I'm posting it anyway.)