Not a public figure...however much older siblings asking teenage girl intrusive questions. Responded by returning question. "Are you and John having sex?" "Are you and Tom having sex?" "Well...yeah....you know we have sex..we are married and we have children." ""There's your answer." "But your not married and you don't have children...oh..so you saying I will know you are having sex when you are married and having children otherwise what you two do in private is none of my business." "Uhhm." "I didn't say it...other person said it" which prevented more intrusive questions.

Your obligation is to your well being not poster child so others can place you on a pedestal expecting you to "solve" group/people problems. Are you fearing success or fearing impossible expectations placed by others aka people pleasing?