Hi Phaeday: Your post is very interesting. It has been my experience that the feelings of dependence foster sexual/romantic disinterest rather than interest. I get completely why the dependence makes us stay, but when we start to feel more well, we tend to want more out of the relationship, right? I know with me I have underlying issues that keep me from having a really healthy, two-sided relationship. Usually it becomes co-dependent about the time that I have my first depression while in it. Just some thoughts. Warmest regards.

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