Ricky...
I don't know what to tell you other than that I (white female) do NOT see you as being inferior in any way. In fact, I am MORE attracted to other ethnic backgrounds than to white men (too bad you're off the market! ;-) ). I am grateful that I live in a society where diversity is more welcome than in many countries. Not sure if you're American or not, but think about what it would be like to live in an interior village in, say, Bolivia. You're much less of a sore thumb here, so be glad for that. Try to focus on the percentage of white males who are uncultured morons.
My dad is European and I have ALWAYS felt the American Inferiority Complex. Always had a nagging sense that Europeans think that Americans are uncultured slobs, for the most part. I do find myself going out of my way to change the standard... but really, you are on the right track to try to work the bad feelings out of yourself and aim for being secure with who you are.

Hope your therapist can work with you on this and that you find some additional support here. I, for one, would rather spend time with a gay asian/hispanic than a stuffed white suit.