That may have it's true cases, but I find that when I stand up for what I believe & the things that I value in my life, it is usually the best no matter how things turn out.....sometimes the things I loose because of what I stand up for, I didn't really want anyway.......when I truely look at them.

Without my values, I find that I am wishywashy & get pushed around by those who have their strong ideas even if they contradict what I really feel strongly about & I don't like getting pushed around by others......then I am not in control of MY LIFE....& no one but me should be in control of my life.

Just a different point of view....

By the way, I haven't seen you around for quite a while Ryan.....I just got back on internet now that I am here in Kentucky.......see you around,
Debbie