Wow, what an interesting topic. You know I have never felt bad about long posts. I kinda just write and just hit "send". Whoever reads it reads it and whoever doesn't doesn't. People on here shouldn't feel guilty or have the need to apologize, although I do understand the anxiety self-esteem thing. FYI I have horrible self esteem but can give less than two figs if anyone doesn't like what I write.

Also you have to be in the mood. Sometimes I see a lot of text and don't read, sometimes I do. It all depends on the person and what they feel like reading. But what I do love about the internet is their is a "shut down" option. So if you don't like it or they don't like it, just hit "shut down". If only real life relationships were that easy. Someone hurting you or telling you something bad then just hit "shut down".