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Old Aug 31, 2015, 09:18 AM
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I have actually had many mention to me about dismissive attachment. I don't dislike it so I can't imagine why I would want to change it. I do, however, fear the woman may be trying to change it against my will with that right brain thing. Some of what I have read leads me to believe they try doing it at clients regardless of the client telling them they do not want it.

I had an odd conversation with the first one once where she said she used to try to be kinder and I told her how much better it was now that she had stopped trying it and she was taken aback. The problem is, I think she is trying it again -and it is awful for me to have them do empathy at me.
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